by Susan Cain
She introduced a term I was unfamiliar with, Ambivert. That may be what I am, an ambivert with strong leanings to itrovert. I will write more after I finish the book, which so far is fascinating, maybe even life changing.
A personality trait including the qualities of both introversion and extroversion.
So What Can an Ambivert Do?
Let people know about your style: that your behavior fluctuations are not about them, just about you needing to manage energy. Be realistic about your needs. When you need to recharge, don’t feel guilty stepping away. You’ll be more useful and nice to be around when you return. And when you’re in the mood to talk out loud, say that these are early thoughts and that you’re tossing them out. On the other hand, if you need time to think before responding, say so. People will be less confused, and will make fewer wrong assumptions about your intent.
Think you’re an Ambivert? How can you tell? What advice do you have for others?
Assess Yourself: Find out if you’re an Ambivert with this quick online assessment from Dan Pink
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